I’m a little embarrassed by writing this post, because I keep thinking WWJD(i know, i know...)? But to what extent do I lend my hand? I am in need of your expertise and wisdom.
there’s a girl that lives at the property I work at that thinks I’m pretty cool. well hey, who can argue with someone that thinks you’re pretty cool? the only problem is, it’s a leeettle bit out of control. I mean it has gone from shopping at the exact same stores as i do, dying her hair the same color as mine(even cut bangs!) and traded in her acrylic nails for painted ones...like mine. She comes and sits at my office desk for an hour at a time, at least three times a day, not talking much, but mostly staring. this has gone on for almost a year, since she asked me my height and weight-it turns out, we are...THE SAME!!
ok so I promise I’m not saying this to toot my own horn because I think that I really am as awesome as she thinks I am. But I am in the shambles about the situation! It is flattering, creepy and on top of that I feel the responsibility to be her friend. I’ve never had to reject a friend request(besides the creeps on facebook) before. I don’t know if she’s crazy or if she just desperately needs a friend. I have always felt that I shouldn’t turn down a person in need, but then again I’ve never been so exhausted from a relationship that’s not even a real friendship! She has asked for my number, to hang out and to become friends on facebook a few times and I have kindly deflected the situation. This has seriously been weighing on my mind, though. Am I being selfish and rude and hurtful? Am I the friend that she needs right now? Am I going to be handing in my sanity card if I give her my digits? Am I worried that she is just going to invade my whole life(...yes)?
The question I am asking you, do I give her my contact info or not?